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Okay, so we've all had our share of bad luck with relationships. Whether it's playing too many games, to not knowing the games, to completely not understanding that thing called love at all. This blog is set up just to have open communication about different questions that arise in relationships. Please, don't hesitate to share a laugh, a story, an unusual encounter or just straight up knock you on the floor advice. The one rule is to simply be honest!!! There are no judges here.
I think a lot of times people are scared of making themselves vulnerable. They force themselves to keep a distance by playing games.
ReplyDeleteI think you have a great point... The games really don't give you any type of advantage one way or another in a relationship...
ReplyDeleteI think people play games because they never want to feel submissive towards the other person, it's almost as if playing the game is a control factor allowing one to feel like they're always in control and like leigh said, not vulnerable to to the situation.
ReplyDeleteI think sometimes people play games, to see where you stand and sometimes its just the fact that they are not women or man enough to keep it real because its all about getting what they want. If you ask my personal opinion, when this happens, it just lets me know that there is more growing up to be done..
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Toya about the immaturity that comes with the playing of these games. And trust me, maturity does not necessarily come with age...
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